How A Genius Handles Conflict

Manages him or her self. Understands the ‘Universe.’

You can tell when conflict has you. You’re upset. Angry. Uncomfortable. Livid, maybe. Someone’s done you wrong.

This says you’ve divided the situation into two universes: ‘right’ and ‘wrong.’ You can, easily, correct this. Translate ‘right’ and ‘wrong’ (or ‘good’ and ‘bad’) into ‘zero’ and ‘one.’

Meaning, whatever made you mad is zero. And you, are, ‘one.’

This means you have accepted, it takes two to make one.

OK. Great.

This is the basis for the conflict. You want to be the only ‘one.’ Some other one invaded your picture. Meaning, you are not the only ‘one.’

Why did this make you angry?

Hydrogen when burned produces water. (Anger, eventually, produces tears.) And, then it passes. (The original zero and, then, one.)

Meaning, one is, always, (entangled with, and as) two. Forget about the right and wrong, the good and bad in nature. Zero and one is one and two.

No two ways about it.

Zero and one knows nothing at all about feelings. One way. Or the other.

The ‘other’ one knows nothing about your feelings. Cares nothing about ‘you.’ Knows only about his, or her, feelings. He or she is, unknowingly, just, ‘zero’ to your ‘one.’

Feelings come and go. Thoughts come and go. Conflict comes and goes. Everything comes and goes (the baseline is 50–50). Half-the-time, no matter what you do, you are going to be in conflict.

So, a genius ignores conflict. No matter how he, and she, feel(s). A genius ignores feelings. Feelings share a circle with thought. So you can think about your feelings, change your thought about your feelings, ignore things, including, ignoring the times you were (or are) unable to ignore things (50% of the time).

You get this. It’s pretty simple.

So, that’s all there is to handling conflict. A genius sets his, or her, expectations, remembering half-the-time things go wrong for all of us.

The other half? Have fun!

Conservation of the circle is the core dynamic in nature.

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